The bible is clear. All things work together for our good, but WE have a role to play. I’ve grown to discover that one of my biggest cop-outs was, ‘Hey, it will all just work out’. Often times I said it when I wasn’t as thorough as I should have been or when I was […]
Happy New Year Family! Let this year be the year of intentionality for you. Be intentional about what you want to see happen. If you have goals, create a plan. Goals without plans are just wishes. Wishes don’t benefit anyone or anything. Just like a business, success is predicted upon how solid your business plan […]
One thing that I have learned is that time heals all pain. No one can determine the amount of time the healing will require, but when God heals the wound, you will be able live with the scar. Just look at some of the scars you may have on your body now from mishaps years […]
In today’s society, to be guarded is not only the norm, but it’s safer that way. You never know who you can trust or who could potentially be the one that could harm you. This perspective will certainly keep you protected, but it will also keep the good that could come your way at a […]
Maybe you keep getting ignored and over looked but you know God has placed something special inside you. Remember this: Joseph was thrown in a pit, harassed, sold, put in prison, and forgotten by those he helped. Until one day the TOP official in the country wanted to hear what everybody else couldn’t appreciate when […]
We see life thru the lens of our own experiences. That being said, you won’t be ok with others until you are first ok with yourself. Acclaimed author Anaïs Nin said it best, ‘We don’t see things as they are we see things as we are’. Ask God to help you examine your past and […]
The most powerful person you will ever encounter is someone with discipline and self control. The inability to ‘pull up’ has cost people jobs, marriages, friendships and even their lives. True power is shown by taking the high road when you are fronted on, embarassed, or challenged. It’s keeping your mouth shut when you don’t […]
Some people will never be motivated to work on their inside because their outside has gotten them by just fine so far. 20, 30 and 50 year marriages successfully make it because their biggest assets were more than her curves or the contents of his wallet. You can certainly get what you want with them, […]
You won’t be able to consummate the marriage between you and your destiny until you first divorce your past. The past, both good AND bad, should simply be a point of reference because you can’t change it. The possibilities of your future are fervently trying to get to you, but you look like you’re already […]
God has assigned a work for all of us to do. It’s His purpose for our lives. Far too many people haven’t realized it yet, but it’s the very reason why you were born. The closer you get to realizing your purpose, the more opposition will arise. Understand this though: Opposition can never stop purpose. […]
There’s a Nigerian Proverb that says ‘A heart in love finds a thousand ways. A heart in question finds a thousand excuses’. Show me a person full of excuses as to why they can’t adjust, accommodate, pull up, or compromise for the sake of love, and I will show you a person who is more […]
Diplomacy has its place. As does political correctness. However, there comes a time when you have to be unashamedly bold about your position as a child of God in today’s culture. People will attempt to label you a hater, a judgmental person, too deep, self righteous and much more, but once you solidify your stance […]
