As much as I am apprehensive to admit it, some of my greatest successes have been a result of the training I got from my worst failures. It could have gone either way, but I chose to learn and get better as opposed to shrivel up and die. Some failures were totally my fault and others were a result of someone else’s hand, but the lessons were still just as powerful. The drama you are experiencing now is making you. You decide whether it makes you bitter… or better.
2 Corinthians 12:9-10
But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.