www.kdbowe.com Everyone needs a scheduled reminder of who they really are. Life, environments, situations and PEOPLE are constantly competing to define you. Don’t let them. You are AWESOME, FULL OF POTENTIAL, EFFECTIVE, PROSPEROUS, A WINNER, SANE and someone’s PERFECT FIT! Know and embrace your definition and reject stuff that tells you otherwise. If you don’t […]
www.kdbowe.com It’s your business to choose to befriend a liar or a gossip. It’s ridiculous, however, to be shocked when they lie on or gossip about YOU. Much of the heartache we face is from lofty expectations, but poor preparation. Every situation has it’s own unique brand of drama. Though we EXPECT the best, we should […]
www.kdbowe.com If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, I’d spend six sharpening my ax. YOU are your ax! After a while you will wear out if you don’t take care of yourself. YES, everybody needs something and YOU have to do it… but who will do it if you are DEAD? It […]
This is a skit my children and I did about the difference in how Daddy disclipines his daughters as opposed to his sons… hilarious!
A Son Deferred: Why I Bought a Box of Condoms Today By Scott A. Hayes An Open Letter To My Unborn Son: Xavier Lawrence Hayes I bought a box of condoms today. Did that sound as awkward for you to read as it felt for me to write? You’ll have to excuse me, but I […]
www.kdbowe.com If everybody that meets you says basically the same thing about you, it’s probably you, boo. My mother said it best, no one is so important that EVERYBODY has to lie on you. It may not even be something that you’re doing intentionally. There are times when the best mirrors are the eyes of others. Surround yourself with people who love you […]
www.kdbowe.com It’s easy to say what you ‘will never’ do when the struggle is not your reality. Keep living. Remember when gas was $1.50 and we could ‘never’ imagine paying $4 a gallon? Learn to show love to people from where they are and not from where you WANT them to be. You never know the […]
www.kdbowe.com God has the last say. Not your job. Not your enemies or even your friends. God does. Final doesn’t mean final unless God says so. I have seen people outlive final dates given by doctors. I’ve seen people still living in homes that the bank gave final foreclosure notices to. We must condition our minds […]
www.kdbowe.com It’s your responsibility to train people how to relate to and interact with you. People come from many different environments and have learned from experiences that have had nothing to do with you. Life has molded their personality. You have to determine how or IF that persons lessons will affect you. Never be afraid to […]
www.kdbowe.com Every word you speak is priceless. Why do we throw them around like they are worthless? Our words, both negative and positive, make tremendous, immediate impacts on the universe. Mind what you say. Whether building up or tearing down, be deliberate, specific, and intentional about every word. Each one is DOING something, whether you see […]
www.kdbowe.com An addict is defined as a person who is addicted to an activity, habit or substance. It’s when you keep partaking in something that feels good but is not needed. Motivation is something required to make you MOVE not SIT. Are you addicted to motivation? You are if you haven’t moved with the last […]
www.kdbowe.com In order to love your neighbor as yourself, you FIRST have to love yourself. We have all been wonderfully made by God, and he doesn’t make junk or phony counterfeits. You really ARE a big deal and you have more ability than you know.. it’s the God in you. Stop lying to yourself and […]