Some people will never be motivated to work on their inside because their outside has gotten them by just fine so far. 20, 30 and 50 year marriages successfully make it because their biggest assets were more than her curves or the contents of his wallet. You can certainly get what you want with them, but you won’t keep what you need. There simply must be more inside than out.
1 Samuel 16:7 – Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.